When you are a person that is viewing another person’s ‘drama’ that is being played out for all to see, did you ever wonder why someone would repeat an action or situation more than a couple of times? This could be a grave error at work to where serious consequences would be considered or a couple that repeats the same motions within the relationship, only to “break up to make up” over again?
The idea that someone shows their true identity or thought processes the first time that they encounter the situation, is not far from the Truth. it is unfortunate that you and others that have a good Spirit and heart allow ‘mistakes’ or forgetfulness be allowed is more common than not. Many times this appears at certain important events in a Life – birthdays, anniversaries, holidays – times when feelings and memories abound.
If a person has done something to you before, it is considered that there is a high probability that they will do it again to you. It is a character flaw or something that their soul have to work through with the trauma associated with their actions. This is in line with the old saying “Tigers don’t change their stripes.”
So the question is posed on how to reduce or even eliminate the repeated disregard for yours (and others) feelings due to their lack of memory or emotion? Depending on your personal relationship with them, you might want to decide to cut ties off with them – or – in the case of legalities like marriage documents or family lineage being involved – you might want to consider a Honey Jar. While this might not resolve all personal faults of this person towards you, it might address the more serious offenses they have shown you.
Now, a Honey Jar spiritual work was first intended to draw (and keep) someone under your sweet ‘spell’ so that their mind will be on you constantly. It can also be used to make others soft in regards to you in other matters that are not romantically related. Many years ago, I was working (I use the word loosely as there was no money exchanging hands) for a person that worked traveling across the country. They had a house, a rental, a dog, a brother who was divorced from his wife, and lots of paperwork that needed to be faxed into the businesses that he was servicing. I lived a room in his house, fed the dog, sometimes fed the brother, arose early to talk to East Coast businesses for him, faxed numerous papers to whomever, and collected the rent on his rental – all for a room, utilities, and sustenance. I had a window of free time during the middle of the day, so I picked up a part-time position during the lunch rush to cover personal expenses. I used a business card of my “boss” and a copy of the house key in my honey jar to ensure that I always had a place to live. It served me well until I had opportunities elsewhere and decided it was time to move on. Besides, I trained the woman all my duties that eventually became romantically involved with him and it worked out perfectly.
Creating a successful Honey Jar for whatever reason – take time and research. It is best to have a personal concern of the intended target – but not always. Research botanicals and minerals to boost the efficacy of the jar. You might want to consider timing of the day to attract the qualities of the person and the situation for construction of the jar – but this is not mandatory. It is all in the idea that as much finite information that you have is traditionally held as beneficial for your outcome. As with all magical work, please consider that there is a spiritual element, and it should be a consideration that what benefits you is the best outcome.
In the meantime, if someone recreates an unhappy situation with you, it might be time to consider Mama being right when she said, “Tigers Don’t Change Their Stripes” – and you make changes that benefit you.
