Why is it that some people when dealing with their love life, wait until the last minute to remedy it?
The best analogy is that they wait until the foreclosure notice is on the door and the sheriff is waiting outside to escort them and their belongings off the property instead of dealing with it when the first mortgage payment is late.
Case in point.
I received a call one day from woman who has a two year old child with a man and has been estranged from him for just about that long. She now wants to have him back in her life. In the past few days, I have had three e-mails from her, trying to get free advice (basically) by providing me with snippets of information. I have explained to her that she needs to have many questions answered that I will pose to her when I do my readings in order to get good advice of Obi divination when I throw the cowrie shells for answers. Otherwise, what I send to her in an e-mail is NOT divination, just speculation and my personal comments.
An underlying cause of delay of decision to take action is that the person really does not know what they want, but once faced with a deadline of some sort (like the situation above), then will jump right from the frying pan into the fire, so to speak. It is much better (and a little scarier) for them to step back and take a look at the situation. Do you see drastic changes in that person that will be lasting enough for you to re-connect with them? Have you changed and your goals in life? This could also be the case. Are the both of you looking into the same glass or down the same road? If any of these sound like it could be the case, then wait to go back into a relationship with that person.
Now, another factor for people wanting to re-enter a relationship that was not satisfying to them is this: FEAR. They are afraid to be alone, to be judged as “not worthy” or “alone”, to be considered unable to hold a girl or man, unable to maintain a relationship when they form one, unable to be pretty or handsome enough, sexy enough, make enough money, have enough “stuff”, etc. These people have allowed the general population, friends, family and that have you to be a form of “judgement” on them, and they are developing a psychosis about it and hanging on to whatever thread of an imagined relationship so that they feel “worthy” and then not the subject of people’s wagging tongues.
We all want to be considered “worthy”. We all want to be validated and appreciated for being in existence. We all want to be loved. It is a human nature thing. But, if the relationship that you are hanging onto is not working and there seems to not be cooperation in making it better or if you are trying-to-beat-a-dead-horse-in-the-middle-of-the-road-and-try-to-ride-it-again, you might be asking for too much pain for what it is worth.
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